If you’re nervous about drop-off or anxious about creating a smooth transition, I highly recommend Dr. Becky’s advice for a mindset check and for helpful phrases: I f my kids struggle at drop-off, do I linger, or do I sneak out? Neither, those are two extremes. There’s a whole world between lingering and sneaking out. See when you linger, you end up saying to your child that you are anxious about their … What’s in the middle? Validate how they’re feeling. Drop-off feels tricky today? I get it ”Let your kid know you believe in them. I know your gonna’ end up having a good day at school and then leave… Dr. Becky offers a powerful yet simple approach to handling tough goodbyes in a way that honors your child’s emotions and communicates your belief in their ability to handle hard things. Rather than rushing through the discomfort or trying to "fix" their feelings, this approach invites you to feel confident in your own actions— even if your child is falling apart. For Dr. Becky’s entire reel, 👉 Watch it here Why This Works When you acknowledge their feelings without fear, you send a powerful message: “It’s okay to feel this way. I see you. And I believe you can do this.” That combination — emotional validation plus belief in their resilience — is what helps children build true security and confidence from the inside out. Final Thoughts Drop-off doesn’t need to be perfect to be meaningful. There may still be tears—theirs and yours—and that’s okay. What matters most is how you show up in those moments: with confidence, with love, and with trust in your child’s ability to navigate tough feelings. Let this video be your guide the next time you're facing a difficult goodbye. You’ve got this — and so does your child.